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2020.10.29 01:34 Kerkas 26yo (F4F) France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.29 00:46 Kerkas 26yo (F4F) France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.29 00:44 Kerkas 26yo [F4F/M] France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.29 00:34 Kerkas [Friendship] 26yo (F4F) France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.29 00:33 Kerkas 26yo [F4F] France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.29 00:13 Deepjo59 Faisons connaissance !

Salut, voilà 6 mois que je suis rentré en France, après 10 ans d'aventure en Asie. Depuis je fais tout pour m'en sortir, ou alors je reste seul, faute de moyens ou de connaissances. Donc voilà, si une personne de la gente féminine veut faire connaissance pendant le confinement... Ça m'aiderait à supporter cette solitude qui me pèse tant... Merci J'espère que mon post n'irritera personne... J'ose croire que ma demande est légitime. PS: je n'utilise pas les appli genre tinder, d'où mon post.
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2020.10.28 18:56 Kerkas 26 [F4F] France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I want us to spend time together irl)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.28 14:34 Kerkas 26yo [F4F] France/Switzerland - Looking for my best friend (nothing virtual, I'd like us to see each other irl and spend time together)

Hello there,
What I'm looking for:
I've always wanted to have a girl best friend with who I could go on holidays, buy new clothes, go have our nails done, do sleepovers, have deep talks and laughs, watch movies and series, play games.. Someone I can count on and enjoy life with. Someone who speaks at least english and french and lives not too far so that we could meet up a few times a month irl at least. Why couldn't we also go do some yoga or any other activity together once this pandemic is over? Would be nice! I'd rather talk to people around my age, at least 26yo and max 30
About me:
I like memes, video games, bullet journaling, movies/series, drawing, piano, Rubik's cube, science, ... I'm not into drama and just want to enjoy life with someone. I don't have any friends and I'm single so I am willing to offer you all my free time. I don't wear any make up so I think we would be closer if you also ain't into it. We could anyways do some masks together and such. =)
I'm actually living in France, close to the swiss border (près de Pontarlier) but I'll probably move out to Luzern soon (having an operation in abt three weeks to take my gallbladder out so I should be able to move out around December). I've lived in Germany for 9 years and Switzerland for 12. I speak french, german, english and turkish (but I'm kurdish).
I hope you do exist, I really have no idea how to meet new people. On reddit there are nice people but they usually live too far away. I tried Tinder bcz the app is great but it's full of shitty people and friendship is totally impossible on it (girls don't match bcz they ain't there for friendship and men match a lot but also ain't there for friendship). I tried many other apps to try to find friends but they're either empty or very unpractical to use.. if you guys could recommend me smth, that would be nice! PS: Please don't tell me to go out or do some activities to meet people because with Covid it's pretty much impossible now. '
Thanks for reading!
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2020.10.25 09:56 denereth 24 [M4F] Paris, France, Europe looking to meet new people and hopefully find love.

Hello there !

I’ve find it really difficult to meet new people since I’ve finished my studies and started to work and I’m not a big fan of tinder or such (I find it a bit too shallow for me and I’m not that good with small talk), so I’m trying my luck here. I’m also a bit shy so I need some time to feel comfortable when discussing with someone new which doesn’t really help.

I’m 1m84, a bit chubby right now but I’ve started jogging so I’m working on that. I have brown hair and eyes. I prefer not to include a pic in the post but I’ll send a pic if our discussion goes well. I'm currently working as a software developer. I'm a big fan of video games, mostly RPG. I love playing tabletop games and tabletop RPG. I also like reading (mostly fantasy and sci-fi) and I'm totally open to suggestion (I’m currently reading books from Robbin Hobb, David Edding). I’m also spending a lot of time watching videos of all types (humorist, wtf, history, science,…) and memes.

I’m looking for people around my age. It’s a plus if you’re from France as it will be easier to meet if the discussion goes well but I’m not against talking with people from other countries (I’m just aware that it will be much more complicated but let’s see how things go). I’m looking to create a connection between us be it friendship or hopefully love if we click. I would love if we have some interest in common as it will be a nice ice breaker. Bonus point if you like cuddling because I really like that.

If you’re interested don’t hesitate to send me a message and to talk a bit about you so we can discuss and see where it leads us.
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2020.10.24 23:41 Hereforanswers2 I need a hug. I've made a fool of myself...

TL;DR - I broke up with someone a year ago after 5 dates because he wanted casual. I then started dating him again recently, and after 5 dates ended it again because he only wants casual.
I (32) met a guy (35) in the begining of 2019 on Tinder.
We dated shortly (6 dates) with us being intimate on the 5th date. I asked him straight away on our 6th date what he was looking for relationship wise as I was looking for something serious. He told me "neither a bootycall, neither something serious" as he was travelling a lot (photographer and scubadiving teacher). So basically what I understood was something "casual". He also told me he never had a relationship which lasted more than 6 months.
This kind of turned me off and also the fact that I felt he wasn't opening up to me emotionnaly. Also he was not making much effort to properly date me.
So after that date, I decided to text him that we were not on the same page and wished him well. He understood and we stopped contacting each other.
To be honest, I was really into him and at the time I thought maybe I could have "go with the flow" a little bit more...
So fast foward one year and half, I date other guys but I still have him on my mind. One day I downloaded Tinder with a new profile (as I deleted the last one) and within 5 min I get a superlike from him.
He then send me a watsapp message to ask how I have been. We chat a bit and then he asks me when I will be back in town. I was about to leave for Greece but told him I would be back in one month. During my trip he sent me some messages such as "sending you a kiss, how is your trip going?".
Once I came back in France he asks me if I'm back in town. I tell him yes and I ask him if he wants to join me and my friend to an open air cinema.
He gladly joins us with a friend and we sit next to each other. He cuddled my arm and we were get very close, teasing each other...
Since we knew each other, I was more open to him. The next week I don't get any news from him so I send him a text to know if he is free. He tells me he is free on sunday evening.
I go to his place, but suddently I felt he was very distant, not asking much questions, closed off... He was emotionnaly not here. I felt I was doing all the work. He told me about how he wasn't making any money, how he needed a stable job... I felt he was very down and unmotivated. It was NOT the same guy I met in 2019... So I kind of was cheering him up. Then we had sex because we were still very attracted physically. I tried hard to not overthink like I'm used to but looking back I simply didn't listen to my intuitions. The next day he sent me a text telling me he really enjoyed our time together...
And then our meetings (5 in totals) end up being all the time at his place... To be honest we did have amazing sex. One time we went to a party with his friends but the whole time he was so distant. No PDA. I felt very hurt. On our way back he acts very close to me, cuddle me, kissing me.
I had just glimpses of him being into me here and there. I thought that maybe we were taking thing slowly, as the first time I was a bit too straightfoward, maybe he was having a difficult time in his life (jobless)... or other excuses.
On the 5th meeting, I was feeling bad about all of this and finally I asked him if he was seing other people. No surprise he told that he did. I said to him that I was not confortable with all of this. He answered that he never made me believe we were a couple and that he was not in a place to date yada yada. I thanked him for his honesty and I left.
He later sent me a text telling he didn't wish we stopped seeing each other but that if we were not on the same page it was better this way.
Anyways, I guess you know what I know. That guy was NOT INTO me and I've made a food of myself to believe that somehow he was.
He knew what I was looking for because I was very clear the first time... Why not have more consideration and tell me from the start "hey look, Im still not into serious, don't get attached"?.
I'm now angry at myself to have put up with such a guy. I deserve so much better. I believe I idealized him. I also didn't listen to my intuitions. I knew. I sometime really believed we had something special but It was surely all in my head.
I cut off contact but I'm still hurt and have lot of ressentment about all of this.
I need some kind words from you guys. Please be nice...
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2020.10.22 23:29 Code_44 Retour de nuages

Bon pour ceux qui seraient confus pour le champ lexical du titre, je me permets de renvoyer au dernier post de ma personne ici (https://old.reddit.com/besoindeparlecomments/ase73i/soleil/) en janvier 2018 donc. Y a toute une saga de titres météos chez moi ici.
Bref de bref. Donc le titre spoile, ça s'est un peu gâté depuis. Mais ça va en même temps ? Je vais essayer de recentrer.
Le travail que j'avais trouvé au post précédent, y a quasi deux ans, je le quitte dans deux semaines. Sans regret, parce qu'on reste payés au lance-pierre; que les cadres sont incompétents; et je ne cache pas mon plaisir depuis le mois dernier de les voir comme des poulets sans tête, alors que ce que je leur avais annoncé depuis les six derniers mois, c'est à dire de gros soucis s'ils ne changeaient pas vite de procédure de travail et n'écoutaient toujours pas la base salariale, le tout en sortie/reprise de covid dans l'industrie du tourisme, beeeeeen. J'avais raison. Et leurs déni n'en est que plus savoureux avec le recul. Cassandre, je te comprends ma vieille.
Pour la reprise du boulot, là où c'est déjà un peu plus galère, j'ai quelques entretiens mais au moins une fois (et peut-être deux) où la recruteuse elle-même perd son job entre temps, ce que je trouve hilarant et m'inquiète pas mal, même si objectivement j'ai des réserves de sous, que la vie en Europe centrale reste pas si chère, et que s'il le faut VRAIMENT j'irais chopper un job dans la compta, et qu'avec les confinements et tous les expats qui rentrent se cacher dans les jupes de maman en France ces derniers jours, y aura p'tet des opportunités. Sur ce point je suis plus chiffonné parce que mes collègues démissionnaires ont trouvé avec plus ou moins de difficulté, moi j'ai la difficulté, mais pas la trouvaille.
Ah et aussi j'ai pas très envie de remanger un confinement, c'était déjà bien assez chiant en mars-avril, mais si ça se fait avec un boulot plus humain je devrais survivre.
Ce qui me retourne par contre vraiment, c'est que je suis célibataire depuis deux semaines environ. Ma nana m'a quitté et ça fait bien mal au cul. Je crois que je réalise pas encore tout à fait et je suis bien amer sur ce sujet.
Sans entrer dans les détails compliqués, elle écrit depuis pas mal d'années et s'est chauffée à faire de l'autoédition avec campagne ulule et tout le bazar. Elle a très mal pris quand j'ai suggéré qu'elle devrait aussi se trouver un filet de sécurité alimentaire au cas où son projet bidait, on a eu une grosse dispute liée à ça (et à la base, à mon énervement sur le fait qu'elle arrêtait la fac pour se concentrer encore plus sur le projet pour aider ses parents, ces derniers étant responsables selon moi de 75% des soucis psys de mon ex, en plus de mentir sur leur situation financière et de voler leurs propres enfants), si grosse dispute que c'était moi qui songeais à ce moment là à partir, mais je pensais qu'on avait mis les choses au clair et que ça allait, surtout que je lui proposais de venir me rejoindre à l'étranger en 2021, argumentant qu'elle pourrait gérer ses projets d'ici, qu'on pourrait la mettre chez l'habitant quelques semaines le temps qu'on trouve un appart ensemble, etc.
Et du coup y a deux semaines, elle me sort qu'elle ne se sent pas soutenue, que ne me mettais pas à sa place avec ma proposition de logement chez l'habitant (elle est phobique sociale), et que c'était mieux si on en restait là.
Encore une fois je ne vais pas rester dans les détails, j'ai l'impression d'en avoir déjà trop donné, mais en trois ans, j'estime avoir plus que fait ma part de soutien, avoir débarqué en cata chez elle plus d'une fois suite à des crises, lui avoir donné des dizaines de pistes et de portes de sortie professionnelles qu'elle n'a jamais vraiment prises; bref de l'avoir portée dans tous les sens du terme et la voir, il est vrai, aller mieux au cours de ses trois ans, la voir grandir en autonomie et en confiance en soi.
Pour tout vous dire le projet long, envisageait que j'aille la rejoindre au Canada dans trois ou quatre ans quand elle y serait.
Donc ouais me voir retorquer du "tu ne me soutiens pas" ça fait mal, surtout quand 48h avant elle m'appelait encore "mon grand amour", "soleil de ma vie" et que quand je la reprenais en riant et en disant qu'elle exagérait un peu, elle me répondait qu'elle était sincère.
Par honnêteté, je me dois aussi de vous dire que quand je casse avec quelqu'un je brûle tout contact. Je lui ai dit pour la prévenir, effacé son numéro, effacée de discord. Un de nos camarades communs pense que c'est puéril de ma part, sans doute. Mais je ne sais pas faire autrement.
Le dernier message qu'elle m'a donc dit suite à ça c'est "bonne continuation".
Trois ans de relation, "mon grand amour, soleil de ma vie" à "bonne continuation" en 48h. Ouais ça fait mal quand même.
Objectivement, je ne peux pas dire que j'en suis que dévasté, ça me libère aussi d'un poids d'avoir à gérer ses crises qui était épuisant, et ça règle tout seul la question des enfants, j'en voulais, elle non. Elle est aussi beaucoup plus jeune, ce qui peut expliquer cela, mais bref.
Je sais que je vais rebondir, tant professionnellement que sentimentalement. Je suis dans une grande ville, je vais donner sa chance à Tinder pour me changer les idées quand le confinement sera allégé ou fini, et j'ai beau m'être toujours trouvé tarte physiquement, c'était ma 3e copine (certes en 29 ans de vie terrestre et en gros 7 ou 8 ans depuis la numéro un mais eh, ça compte), j'aurais bien passé mes angoisses covidiennes et pros dans du contact physique câlineux et un peu de cul.
Et en plus, Kingsman 3 et James Bond sont repoussés. L'hiver sera long.
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2020.10.14 15:03 ouaqaa Dating in the age of covid and apps

Hello bros and brosettes;

About a year ago, my ex and I parted ways after ten years together. It was a somewhat mutual decision and I took the time to process it, grieve, learn self acceptance, learn to grow, find a new place, handle the covid apocalypse and whatnot.
I now feel like I'm ready to start dating again. Ten years ago, I had a flip phone and meeting people was (supposedly) as easy as going to a party/pub and talking to strangers. Today feels very different.
I'm 36, saw the rise of dating apps and websites while I was in a relationship and I would think to myself "maaaaan if this had existed while I single, my shy-ass would've been a proper Don Juan". But fantasies and reality are quite different...
I don't really know where to start, what to do, post or anything. I'm looking for any pointers to help me getting in the dating pool. I'm thinking of trying out bumble and maybe tinder but I'm very lost.
Any pointers would be greatly appreciated and if context helps by any means, I'm a french bro living in France.

Thanks for reading, and actually posting this is my first big step as I've been tinkering with this idea for weeks now
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2020.10.12 04:28 throwRA-adios dear r

we tried; we really did (at least i know did). it’s like we held onto our rainbow thread for so long when it was already fading from its vibrant array of shining colors to something murky and brown. i saw it but i was in denial, i still wanted to believe that it was beautiful. fleeting memories run past my mind but i let them pass-- i want to avoid the burden of letting our ghostly memories exist in my head. i try to live in the present. it was something we never did and maybe that’s why we always argued. Why did we argue? it was literally always something petty, something that wasn’t that deep. you would let these emotions of irritability consume you.
ive never had someone be mad at me for hours because i suggested you to step back 1 foot away from the girl at target that way we could maintain self-checkout. i wasnt being controlling but i do understand if youd be annoyed (you were allowed to be and thats okay). it’s not okay to completely blow up and be angered by it for hours because that’s not a normal human reaction. remember when i told you that i was scared because i had learned that i went to a rapist’s house that i met on tinder? and your initial reaction was jealousy because i had brought up a guy that i had kissed and given a blowjob. you didn’t feel empathy for me because i was shocked to know that i could’ve been a victim if i hadnt snuck away and left. you were mad at me because i had followed a guy on instagram that i had kinda hooked up with even though we werent together, you had done the same thing to me SEVERAL times (shit, you didn’t even unfollow your ex until 2 months into our relationship), AND i had told you that id remove and unfollow him. instead of having an actual conversation about it to hear me out, your only reaction was to block me on everything and not let me explain myself properly? you let jealousy consume you like cancer and the fact that you avoid it and lie to yourself by saying that “it’s getting better”, is only making it worse. why can’t you acknowledge when youre jealous and just say it?
r, you are dangerous. you said that i had lied to you about following him on social media when i told you the truth from the start. i even told you that he joined the student org before you even asked. remember when i said that “ill tell you later because now is not a good time” and you pinned me down to your bed and forced me to say it right then and there? i have photos of the bruises that you left on my forearms. ive been contemplating on going forwards to title ix about it because that was abuse; do you really think you deserve to step foot on campus and keep your scholarship after that? interesting how you tried to gaslight me into thinking that i lied to you, called me emotionally abusive because i made a joke about how “you were making my serotonin go down”, and then said you didnt know what to apologize for because you realized that you made a mistake by claiming that i was “toying with your emotions” and being “emotionally abusive”. you, r, are the abusive person in the relationship. you broke my trust multiple times and never even tried to rebuild it; consequently, you’d get upset when i wouldnt be able to trust you (and for valid fucking reasons). ive literally only lied once (we got over it) and that was because i had implied that i just made out with the guy when in actuality, we did other things too. i understand that i hurt you but we got over it because i rebuilt your trust in me.
the problem is that you refuse to believe that youre traumatized. Your first irl (not virtual)ex girlfriend in high school really fucked you up. please admit that. you honestly shouldve hit her back. because that was your first relationship, you learned how to love in such a toxic way. she abused you. she manipulated you. she controlled you. work on the anger and emotional scarring that she inflicted upon you. every relationship that you have from this point forwards wont be better if you dont work on yourself. i acknowledge that i dealt with my emotional problems and set of trauma, but never did i once try to fucking hurt you. if i could go back in time and be exactly right there when she would abused you, i wouldve rocked her fucking shit. going on tinder literally less than 24 hours after we broke up doesnt fix anything, r. youre making yourself worse than you already are because youre penting up jealousy and you turn your jealousy into this form of intense passive aggressiveness thats slowly turning into physical rage. i know that you and her hooked up; im not fucking stupid lol. its only upsetting to me because thats literally what i had expected. you said that you followed her because “what if you needed help with chemistry :(“ 2 weeks after we had gotten back together and you had lied about unfollowing her. r, even though were not together, i never even tried to make a move on v because i was being honest when i said that i wasnt interested. youre the one who looked foolish.
even if we hypothetically worked everything out, i still wouldnt want to be with you because your jealousy and irrational irritability was an underlying issue that you refused to acknowledge existed. i had my own set of problems but so did you; the only difference was that i was open in the air about them and tried to fix it yet you did the opposite. i just really hope that you find your way through whatever triggers your insecurity and makes you jealous. you have a lot of potential but youre denying a disease thats slowly consuming you and you know it, r. ive spent so much time with you that i know what im talking about and i know exactly whats going on.
i cared about you so much; i cared about our relationship so much. we both knew that we wanted to stay together longer and i genuinely wanted that. i genuinely wanted for you to be close with your family, especially your grandmother because i knew that you had to cherish her. remember how happy she was to finally see you? i know she was and still is proud of you for going to college. i genuinely wanted to move together after graduation; envisioning myself working either in dc or richmond for my gap year before law school while you were just starting to work in virology or perhaps pharmaceuticals. i genuinely wanted to own a cat with you; one that was chonky and would sleep with us in the bed together. i was planning on taking you to france after graduation if we were still together, it was supposed to be a surprise. for your birthday, i was planning on buying you wagyu beef and a ceramic burr coffee grinder; that was supposed to be a surprise too. remember when wed somehow slip on the edge of marriage? its slightly painful to think of right now but i liked our idea of setting up guest tables and how you were going to make your friend wear the yacht suit. sometimes youd slip and talk about you proposing to me. we both knew what we wanted, r. i wish it couldve worked, i really do. im sorry your first love really fucked you up, i really want to see you heal from it-- even if im not by your side. for my own sake, ive forgiven you. i forgive you. i forgive you because you havent learned to manage the rage of jealousy that you deny exists within you. i forgive you because of your own ignorance. all i asked was for you to call me that morning. i went out of my fucking way to message you on venmo because thats how much i cared. why couldnt you just call me back and listen to what i had to say? why did you get angry over me following him even after i said that id remove him and unfollow him? why was it so hard to have a normal empathetic conversation about it, r? remember when you said that it was easier to accept a slap to the face than have a conversation like that? yes you do remember, and you know thats a large reason why itd be so hard to have a normal conversation about things like that. i dont hate you; i just wish it couldve gone differently.
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2020.10.08 23:09 coldh4nd I've been living in France for 2 years now and I'm still not sure what the french think about us Arabs.

To preface my post, I would like to clarify that I moved to France 3 years ago for my studies, then moved abroad to Scandinavia for a year then came back to France.
Throughout my whole stay in France, I have not had a single french friend, many acquaintances though, through school/internships. I won't even mention dating, because I don't even get matches on tinder for example, or even irl.
Whereas when I was in Scandinavia, people were very interested in the fact that I was Arabian and dating was even easier than in my home country. When I went back to France after my master's year ended, I was welcomed with the same hostility l, whether it been in the metros, on the streets or even dating apps for instance, I feel that as an Arab I am repulsive in France, and people would rather just avoid me than try to socialize. I asked my fellow Arab friends about it and they told me the same.
So my question is, why is there a lot of tension towards us? Is it due to the immigration situation? Or is it something entirely else?
Rant over.
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2020.10.07 02:34 mrchochaud Matches on dating apps never reply

TL;DR: How do you deal with your matches not replying on a dating app? Is there something that you can do to increase your chances of getting a reply? Am I doing something wrong?(for this please go ahead and read the rest)
So now, just to give a proper context and explain for those willing to read the whole thing:
28 M, a foreigner living in French Alps in a medium sized student city. I've been on dating apps for less than 3 weeks now. I was told normally white guys have better chances of getting a match and I'm not white. Just to be clear am not claiming racism or anything in France, I kind of understand people having a preference for people from their own culture. Though I personally don't think I'm good looking or anything, I've been called cute by several white women. Also, I did put some effort in writing my bio. Though my bio is in English not French, I'm getting at least one match per day. On some days I get like 2 or 3.
However, in 90% of the cases, even when I make the first move, the matches never reply. If there's something interesting in their bio/pictures, I try to open the conversation saying something funny or interesting about that, if there's nothing specifically interesting I just start with plain old "Hi, How are you?" or "Heyyy, How are you doing today?". I don't know much French, but since I live in a student city, most young people speak English or at least understand it. So, I normally start the conversation in English.
I've never asked for nudes as an opening message or started a conversation in a sexual manner or anything that can potentially make someone uncomfortable/raise red flags in their head.
I wonder why women are not replying to me.
Is it because of language? or My skin color? or Is my humor really bad? My friends think my humor is fine. If not the best, it's at least worth a chuckle. Moreover, are the matches real people or just bots? I wonder about it some times.
I don't really know what the hell am I doing wrong. So just like everyone else, I decided to come online and bother kind random people for answers.
When it's happening on a daily basis for almost 3 weeks, it's a bit frustrating and I find it hard to understand why would somebody swipe for me if they are not planning on talking to me.
Any help and suggestions are much appreciated. Thanks in advance.
P.S.: I've had this experience not just on Tinder but other apps(supposedly popular in France) as well.
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2020.10.05 15:46 The_Good_Guy_ Why don’t curries larp as blacks?

Srsly tho why the hell are u not larping as a black.U have no idea how much of SMV u are leaving at the table by not doing it.This thread will explain in detail why Curries can,should,and how to larp as a black
Reasons for blackmaxing
-Blacks have very high SMV provided they look NT and are tall and thugmaxxed
-Blacks can get away with bad lower thirds and most blacks have recessed chins.So Currys can take advantage of this situation.
-Tyrones do much better than chadpreets on tinder
-Currys are at the bottom of the SMV ladder so larping as a black will sky rocket ur SMV and clinging onto the agenda and belief that “I am an Indian and proud of my culture and wouldn’t larp as a black” will get you nowhere.A curry normie is an incel in the west learn to accept a few basic truths.If u can’t change the world then try changing urself.U have two choices either be a proud curry and remains a virgin or larp as black and slay pussy.
Requirements for larping as a black
-Tall(6ft atleast) If u are a manlet don’t bother reading further.U can’t rappermax.It just won’t work
-Decent frame with broad shoulders and narrow hips
-Don’t have bug eyes
-A Normie+ face
-Dark skin is better but light skin doesn’t hurt much since u can mulattomax but you shouldn’t have red undertones.
That’s it
Ok so now let me clear a few misconceptions
-Indians have a different skull than blacks. Their features are different, so they can’t larp.
Yes that’s true but that doesn’t stop them from larping as a black
There are a few rare phenos in south India such as the ones pictured below
https://i.imgur.com/wnQEPBB.jpg
If a curry with that pheno larps as a black even a blackcel wouldn’t be able to tell he is curry.But even if u don’t have that pheno your goal is to fool foids not men and most foids don’t overanalyse faces like we do and most of them judge a face and a guy’s race within a few seconds.So I would say 90% of south Curry phenos can larp as blacks
-Curries have different skin compared to blacks
This is another PSL meme.Skin isn’t different.Curries have pigmentation and uneven skin colouring which can easily be fixed with a good skincare routine
-Curries are low T it wouldn’t work
Yes Curries are low T but still they can larp.All they need is to run a cycle with steroids or get a few jaw surgeries at most to get a masculine face
-A larping curry won’t mog shit
Wrong,Curries have good bone structure and like I said blacks have bad jaws and average eye area and curries on the other hand have DOM skulls and even if he doesn’t all he needs is a few fillers to looks masculine so if a tall dark skinned curry without bug eyes larps as a black he is guaranteed to be atleast a High tier black normie
Ok so how do you larp as black
Pretty simple the only thingy that gives it away for a dark curry is his Low T face,skin colour,Hair texture and curry accent.So,
-Gymmax with roids or Sarms
-Skincare routine to make ur skin more uniform and coloured and darken your skin if it’s too light
-Get a perm or shave your head and start wearing a Durag to hide the ethnic hair
-Curry accent is subhuman and is comical so get rid of that.
-Get hazel or green contacts they will add more contrast,will look great with dark skin and halo u hard
-Thugmax-Streetware clothes,earrings, tattoos, gold chain,Play basketball.
-Curries in general have DOM skulls but those who don’t,can get fillers to project their bones further and a curry should definitely improve his eye area with lower eyelid retraction and infra orbital implants.A Nosejob may not be required since blacks have low Nasions and wide noses and most ethnic Currys have similar noses if you don’t,get a Nosejob to have one.
You have to basically try things out gradually larp as a black by slowly trying to look like Guyanese then a blindian and then a full black
Here in France I see plenty of Curries larping as blacks and slaying mad pussy.So Larping as a black will definitely help.Down below are a few Curries successfully larping as blacks
https://t.tiktok.com/i18n/share/video/6861305516207951110?refer=embed&utm_source=embed
https://i.imgur.com/RR1Rss8.jpg
https://www.instagram.com/p/B6vsadJlcUX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
That’s it from me.Let me know what u think
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2020.10.05 08:33 The_Good_Guy_ Why don’t curries larp as blacks?

Srsly tho why the hell are u not larping as a black.U have no idea how much of SMV u are leaving at the table by not doing it.This thread will explain in detail why Curries can,should,and how to larp as a black
Reasons for blackmaxing
-Blacks have very high SMV provided they look NT and are tall and thugmaxxed
-Blacks can get away with bad lower thirds and most blacks have recessed chins.So Currys can take advantage of this situation.
-Tyrones do much better than chadpreets on tinder
-Currys are at the bottom of the SMV ladder so larping as a black will sky rocket ur SMV and clinging onto the agenda and belief that “I am an Indian and proud of my culture and wouldn’t larp as a black” will get you nowhere.A curry normie is an incel in the west learn to accept a few basic truths.If u can’t change the world then try changing urself.U have two choices either be a proud curry and remains a virgin or larp as black and slay pussy.
Requirements for larping as a black
-Tall(6ft atleast) If u are a manlet don’t bother reading further.U can’t rappermax.It just won’t work
-Decent frame with broad shoulders and narrow hips
-Don’t have bug eyes
-A Normie+ face
-Dark skin is better but light skin doesn’t hurt much since u can mulattomax but you shouldn’t have red undertones.
That’s it
Ok so now let me clear a few misconceptions
-Indians have a different skull than blacks. Their features are different, so they can’t larp.
Yes that’s true but that doesn’t stop them from larping as a black
There are a few rare phenos in south India such as the ones pictured below
https://i.imgur.com/wnQEPBB.jpg
If a curry with that pheno larps as a black even a blackcel wouldn’t be able to tell he is curry.But even if u don’t have that pheno your goal is to fool foids not men and most foids don’t overanalyse faces like we do and most of them judge a face and a guy’s race within a few seconds.So I would say 90% of south Curry phenos can larp as blacks
-Curries have different skin compared to blacks
This is another PSL meme.Skin isn’t different.Curries have pigmentation and uneven skin colouring which can easily be fixed with a good skincare routine
-Curries are low T it wouldn’t work
Yes Curries are low T but still they can larp.All they need is to run a cycle with steroids or get a few jaw surgeries at most to get a masculine face
-A larping curry won’t mog shit
Wrong,Curries have good bone structure and like I said blacks have bad jaws and average eye area and curries on the other hand have DOM skulls and even if he doesn’t all he needs is a few fillers to looks masculine so if a tall dark skinned curry without bug eyes larps as a black he is guaranteed to be atleast a High tier black normie
Ok so how do you larp as black
Pretty simple the only thingy that gives it away for a dark curry is his Low T face,skin colour,Hair texture and curry accent.So,
-Gymmax with roids or Sarms
-Skincare routine to make ur skin more uniform and coloured and darken your skin if it’s too light
-Get a perm or shave your head and start wearing a Durag to hide the ethnic hair
-Curry accent is subhuman and is comical so get rid of that.
-Get hazel or green contacts they will add more contrast,will look great with dark skin and halo u hard
-Thugmax-Streetware clothes,earrings, tattoos, gold chain,Play basketball.
-Curries in general have DOM skulls but those who don’t,can get fillers to project their bones further and a curry should definitely improve his eye area with lower eyelid retraction and infra orbital implants.A Nosejob may not be required since blacks have low Nasions and wide noses and most ethnic Currys have similar noses if you don’t,get a Nosejob to have one.
Here in France I see plenty of Curries larping as blacks and slaying mad pussy.So Larping as a black will definitely help.Down below are a few Curries successfully larping as blacks
https://t.tiktok.com/i18n/share/video/6861305516207951110?refer=embed&utm_source=embed
https://i.imgur.com/RR1Rss8.jpg
https://www.instagram.com/p/B6vsadJlcUX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
That’s it from me.Let me know what u think
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2020.10.05 07:21 The_Good_Guy_ Why don’t curries larp as blacks?

Srsly tho why the hell are u not larping as s black.U have no idea how much of potential u are leaving at the table by not doing it.This thread will explain in detail why Curries can,should and how to larp as a black
Reasons for blackmaxing
-Blacks have very high SMV provided they look NT and are tall and thugmaxxed
-Blacks can get away with bad lower thirds and most blacks have recessed chins.So Currys can take advantage of this situation.
-Tyrones do much better than chadpreets on tinder
-Currys are at the bottom of the SMV ladder so larping as a black will sky rocket ur SMV and clinging onto the agenda and belief that “I am an Indian and proud of my culture and wouldn’t larp as a black” will get you nowhere.A curry normie is an incel in the west learn to accept a few basic truths.If u can’t change the world the only option is change urself which u shd.U have two choices either be a proud curry and remains a virgin or larp as black and slay pussy.
Requirements for larping as a black
-Tall(6ft atleast)
-Decent frame with broad shoulders and narrow hips
-Don’t have bug eyes
-An Normie+ face
-Dark skin is better but light skin doesn’t hurt much since u can mulattomax but you shouldn’t have red undertones.
That’s it
Ok so now let me clear a few misconceptions
-Indians have a different skull than blacks. Their features are different, so they can’t larp.
Yes that’s true but that doesn’t stop them from larping as a black
There are a few rare phenos in south India such as the one pictured below
https://i.imgur.com/wnQEPBB.jpg
If a curry with that pheno larps as a black even a blackcel wouldn’t be able to tell he is curry.But even if u don’t have that pheno your goal is to fool foids not men and most foids don’t overanalyse faces like we do and most of them judge a face and a guy’s race within a few seconds.So I would say 90% of south curry phenos can larp as blacks
-Curries have different skin compared to blacks
This is another PSL meme.Skin isn’t different.Curries have pigmentation and uneven skin colouring which can easily be fixed with a good skincare routine
-Curries are low T it wouldn’t work
Yes Curries are low T but still they can larp.All they need is to run a cycle with steroids or get a few jaw surgeries at most to get a masculine face
-A larping curry won’t mog shit
Wrong,Curries have good bone structure and like I said blacks have bad jaws and average eye area and curries on the other hand have DOM skulls and even if he doesn’t all he needs is a few fillers to looks masculine so if a tall dark skinned curry without bug eyes larps as a black he is guaranteed to be atleast a High tier black normie
Ok so how do you larp as black
Pretty simple the only thingy that gives it away for a dark curry is his Low T face,skin colour,Hair texture and curry accent.So,
-Gymmax with roids or Sarms
-Skincare routine to make ur skin more uniform and coloured and darken your skin if it’s too light
-Get a perm or shave your head and start wearing a Durag to hide the ethnic hair
-Curry accent is subhuman and is comical so get rid of that.
-Thugmax-Streetware clothes,earrings, tattoos, gold chain,Play basketball
-Get hazel or green contacts they will give a add more contrast, will look great with dark skin and halo u hard
-Curries in general have DOM skulls but those who don’t,can get fillers to project their bones further and a curry should definitely improve his eye area with lower eyelid retraction and infra orbital implants.A Nosejob may not be required since blacks have low Nasions and wide noses and most ethnic Currys have similar noses if you don’t,get a Nosejob to get one.
Here in France I see plenty of Curries larping as blacks and slaying mad pussy.So Larping as a black will definitely help.Down below are a few Curries successfully larping as blacks
https://t.tiktok.com/i18n/share/video/6861305516207951110?refer=embed&utm_source=embed
https://i.imgur.com/RR1Rss8.jpg
That’s it from me.Let me know what u think
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2020.10.04 14:48 The_Good_Guy_ I see so many hot girls with subhumans

Couples like this (but most guys have hair) are so fkin common here in France.
most guys have cuck faces and subhuman bodies.
While this guy slays this staceylite.I a chadlite mentalcel Khhv with 0 social skills and am postmaxing and rottmaxing here.Never tried tinder but im gonna get tinder tomorrow and see how well I do.This couple lives just next door seeing them together give me suifuel.There is even this currycel in my uni who is dating this hot Pakistani.Never began for mentalcels.
https://i.imgur.com/jNnrJXe.jpg
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2020.09.27 18:10 ColTaerN Please help me save my relationship, I'm desperate

sorry in advance , im(m24) from sweden so english isnt my native language and im quite emotional and bad at writing and also talking about my feelings isnt exactly what i was learned to do oh and also this is going to be a long one, sorry.
almost 2 years ago i was on tinder as i was usually and i matched with this woman (22) . at the time i wasnt looking for a relationship , mostly because ive been damaged goods my whole life. but we hit it of and there was definitely something more .
so we talked and had fun , but she was also a person who really wanted to get to know you and me being a closed off person when i came to talking about private things ( past trauma etc.) we tended to clash because she was kind of pushy about stuff like that( its a good thing , she really wanted to get to know you and understand you, but i had trouble seeing that).
so several times we started talking and then break it off for the same reason but this year around new years i realized i truly loved her and i had to be a part of her life. so i wrote a long e-mail( we had blocked eachother ) explaining the feelings i had and the reasons why i had been like i had been (past traumas etc.) and she took me back as friends at first but said i had to prove i was for real and that i was serious about us.
fast forward , we became a couple , she moved in with me and we love eachother deeply(not without challenges or troubles ofcourse). and about 2 months or so ago we starting having more troubles coming from the fact that were both flawed because previous traumas and we are were similar but also very different in some ways. shes more open with her feelings and im more closed, shes a more of a "lets just go" and i wanna take things slow and be careful , and other things , so you se that we often have different approaches to life wich can often become hard for one or the other when situation arises when dealing with it.
me personally i think that you should never let your negative emotions affect others in a bad way, shes lets her emotions out and that can lead to her being moody and show some attitude . while its not personal i often take offend because it goes against my belief and i have had people in my life be like that to me in a very negative way. and also i have some diagnoses that makes it hard for me to read emotions like normal people so i can tell the difference between taking offend and just ignore it .and it really takes a toll on our relationships .
fast forward to now, lately we've been on edge with eachother over these differences we have . in particular then one last mentioned . she is now going away to france to work "seasonally" as a steward on luxury yachts in france and this weekend we went to stockholm as a last weekend before she goes away for a long time. but the weekend was mostly us being frustrated with eachother over this . and when we drive off to the airport we dont say a word and as i stand on the parking lot unloading her things she wonders if i wanna follow her in to say goodbye in there , and im being cold saying id rather not and we barely hug even though shes reaching out to me( i know im an idiot but i was mad and im stupid when im angry). so im starting driving off but stop myself and realize what im doing and turn back , run as fast as i can shouting her name ( i know like a movie right) . i make it in time and we stand there just crying talking about how we both dont want it like this and its painful. shes talking about how we shouldnt be together when were so different and im just trying to ease her mind and trying to repair the stupid damage i just did and trying to convince her that were right for each other and that we just need to work on ourselves.
so please im begging you for help , i know for a fact that this is the woman of my life , but we have some differences that we need to overcome , im just scared im not strong enough or good enough to be able to do it in time. i know she makes me a better man but shes impatient and i need time. how can i be able to ignore her mood swing? how can we be able to talk it out better and thoroughly even though im mad and like to settle with my thoughts to understand them better ? how can we try to focus more on the love we have for eachother and have energy and strength to pull trough when were both broken people who are tired in life because the life that we've had? im begging you for all the help or info or whatever that you know that could help us , i would be eternally grateful. because i love this woman with all my heart and i dont want her to become the one that got away .
And please ask if something was confusing or you did understand and I will try to answer them as good as possible . I might not answer for a couple of hours because I need to cool off all emotions I'm feeling right now , I know it sounds stupid but it's hard for me and I need to do that sometimes. And thanks for any help at all.
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2020.09.24 15:31 Maximum-Carpenter-53 Comment trouvez-vous vos partenaires kinky?

Bonjour à tout le monde.
Je suis un gars d'une petite trentaine d'années, j'ai perdu ma copine il y a deux ans et demi et depuis j'ai pas vraiment eu d'histoire sérieuse. La principale raison pour ça (au delà du trauma de son décès, d'un épisode dépressif suite à ça et du temps qu'il m'a fallu pour accepter et m'en "remettre") c'est que j'ai une sexualité pas forcément standard, plutôt orientée kink. Ma copine m'avait initié à la domination et rapidement j'ai adoré et c'est devenu un aspect vraiment central de notre sexualité, et même de nos vies puisqu'au bout d'un moment on passait parfois plusieurs jours dans nos rôles respectifs de maître ou maîtresse et esclave (on était tous les deux attirés par les deux côtés donc on changeait régulièrement de rôle). J'ai eu quelques partenaires depuis (deux filles via Tinder et autres applis du genre, et une ex-collègue que j'ai revue après avoir déménagé près de Paris) mais je me suis rendu compte qu'on était pas assez compatibles pour parler de nos fetish et donc on en est resté à du sexe vanilla, c'était cool mais pas non plus dingue.
Je connais Fetlife, mais j'ai l'impression d'y trouver très peu d'utilisatrices dans ma tranche d'âge (beaucoup d'hommes et beaucoup de femmes d'âge mûr) et dans mon coin. Ça doit pas aider sur j'habite dans une ville au fin fond de l'Ile de France (j'y ai déménagé parce que j'avais une opportunité pro, ça fait presque un an que j'y suis, c'est une ville de taille moyenne, mais pas non plus la folie...). Il paraît que d'autres apps (genre OKC) peuvent aussi avoir un public assez kinky, mais jusqu'à maintenant j'ai pas eu de succès. Je me dis que je suis peut-être un peu trop direct dans mon approche (j'ai clairement décrit le genre de relation que je veux, et je remarque que je vois peu de profils en faire autant... J'ai essayé d'être plus light et subtil dans ma description, pour l'instant sans succès).
J'imagine qu'il y a des clubs spécifiques pour ça sur Paris, mais j'essaye de me renseigner et de découvrir ce monde là, et je n'y arrive pas vraiment. Il faut des contacts que je n'ai pas (n'étant pas Parisien de base) pour se faire inviter aux soirées, et en plus j'ai l'impression qu'il y a peu de tolérance pour un homme seul dans ce genre de club. Et c'est encore plus vrai pour moi qui n'ait vraiment eu qu'une seule expérience kinky, enfin, avec une seule partenaire, même si ça a duré 7 ans. Les gens qui pratiquent le BDSM j'ai l'impression qu'ils font ça depuis des années et qu'ils se sont fait un réseau de dingue et qu'ils piochent dans leur réseau pour rencontrer des gens avec qui s'amuser.
Bref voilà, j'ai pas trop le moral à cause de ça, je me dis que peut-être vous avez des idées!
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